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September 21, 2010

Male Sex Toys

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There are many more male adult toys such as the tenga sex toys, available in the erotic marketplace than you would expect. The traditional front-runner of men everywhere, the penis ring, is now successfully being rivalled by anal sex toys, vibrators, dildos, sex dolls, gay sex toys such as butt plugs and prostate stimulators, male masturbators, penis sleeves, chastity belts, penis pumps and male sex improvement products.

Penis Rings and Toys

Usually worn at the base of the penis, a cock ring can uphold an erection that can be fuller, more rigid and longer lasting due to it constraining the flow of blood to the penis. This can therefore be advantageous to both partners. Penis rings in the form of marital aids are normally made from silicone or rubber, which have a slight give in them. Some silicone cock rings even have vibrating bullets which can be removed included and some have clitoral elating nodules attached for added satisfaction for the female partner. Penis rings that are made of metal or leather are classed as cock and ball torture toys (CBT) as they have very little, or in the case of the metal penis rings, no give in them at all and are for guys that are more into gratification and pain than merely pleasure. Mens chastity devices also fit into this category. Intended to keep the guy under lock and key, an erection is virtually unachievable whilst wearing one.

Anal Sex Toys

Anal adult toys such as anal douches, anal beads and anal plugs (also known as butt plugs) can be used by men and women alike. This can also be said for anal vibes. As one of the oldest forms of sex aids anal beads are available in a variety of lengths each containing different numbers of beads. These beads usually get larger the further down the thread that you go. Anal beads are designed to dramatically improve orgasmic sensations if withdrawn at the point of ecstasy. Anal plugs are often bulbous in design and excite the anal passage when propelled in and out. They are usually made of silicone for easier insertion and come in several sizes, most of which have a suction cup base so they will stick to nearly any surface, leaving hands free for other pursuits. Vibrators usually come in the form of vibrating anal plugs and variable speed anal vibrators. Mens anal g-spot vibrators, as the name suggests, are specially designed for the benefit of men, and have a specially curved tip aimed at stimulating this region. Prostate stimulators are also specifically for the arousal of men.

Penis Sex Pumps

Mens sex pumps, also known as penis pumps, aim to increase not only the girth of the penis but also the length and the hardness. This is achieved by placing the penis into a cylinder which is attached to a hand pump. When the pumping action is applied a vacuum in the cylinder is realised causing superfluous blood to rush to the penis. Some penis sex pumps also come with multispeed vibrators built in often leading to a more quickly realised erection. The size increase of the penis is only designed to be a temporary measure however some pumps claim that if used regularly this will result in a permanent increase in length and thickness.

Mens Sex Toys and Love Dolls

For masturbatory pleasures, as well as consisting of penis sex pumps (which can also be categorised as male adult toys, male marital aids consist of penis sleeves that have patterns and nodules on the innards to provide different feelings and can be either single or open ended, oral sex simulators, realistic feeling imitation vaginas and anuses, and penis tubes which also comprise of different inner sleeves, some of which vibrate. Sex dolls, featuring up to three different tight, succulent love holes depending on the model, are becoming progressively more popular. They are not just used as male masturbators but are also utilised for fun threesome activities with a partner.

Moreover, with male sex enhancement products that are intended to increase the volume of sperm released, pheromones to increase sexual appeal and sprays to heighten the quality and permanence of an erection also commonplace, there are an abundance of sex toys and enhancers available for men at the present time.

Audio Erotica and Mature Erotica-Heightening Sexual Pleasure

There’s a whole new dimension in eroticism that significantly gains popularity nowadays, both in the real and virtual markets. From what used to be dominated by pornographic movies and magazines depicting photos of men and women in various forms of sexual poses, eroticism is starting to take an alternative course, which experts scientifically refer to as mature erotica.

This aspect explores different forms of foreplay other than through physical contact or plain visualization of sexual images. Mature erotica comes in the form of erotic novels, erotic stage plays, short stories, poems, audio erotica, and many other forms of literary publications.

Mature erotica presents the sexual act in a perspective that focuses more on passion, sensation, emotions and psychological reaction, instead of the actions and physical sensations involved in the sexual act per se. In a way, mature erotica connects with its audience at a more intimate and personal level.

As people grow older, the perception towards sex also changes. An individual who gains more experience in the field sees it differently from someone who is still an amateur in the area. Mature erotica describes the sexual act in a more complex context that involves feelings and personal connection; that sex is not simply sex. It is an act comprised of dynamic, physical action to satisfy ones urges. Mature erotica showcases sex as an activity that requires imagination, fantasy, openness, feelings and creativity. Such the factors fuel the contents of the literary pieces tagged under the category.

October 4, 2009

The History of the Vibrator

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Many people assume that sex toys are a recent invention and were invented in Asian. It is true that many sex aids today are made in Asia but the history of the dildo, the vibrator actually started in the west, and they have been used as sexual aids for more than 1,000 years.

The History of the Dildo: The first use of a dildo is not completely clear although it is recorded that single or lonely women in Ancient Greece used them. Unlike modern dildo’s they were made of wood or leather and needed plenty of olive oil for comfortable use. Dildos have always had a sexual purpose. Even male sex toys are available.

The Vibrator’s Humble Beginning: For hundreds of years it was believed that many ‘conditions’ women suffered from a disease called ‘Hysteria’ and that the uterus was complaining of neglect. Anything from tiredness, headaches, absent-mindedness, melancholia and insomnia, irregular breathing, and confusion was put down to ‘Hysteria’. In fact, any type of behavior by women that confused men were put down to hysteria. It was decided – by men – that ‘Hysteria’ was caused by sexual frustration. It seemed clear that a women’s mental or emotional distress was an indication of a need for sexual release. Hysteria, it seems was a prevalent disease, second only to ‘fevers’ – or the classic cold. It was also classed as a chronic disease that could not be cured.

The Vibrator Was About To Be Born.

A ‘breakthrough’ for the poor weary doctors came in 1869 when the steam powered massage and vibratory apparatus for treatment of female disorders was patented. This apparatus was intended for supervised use only in case of over indulgence.

It was indeed a brilliant invention, saving doctors much time, therefore allowing them to see more patients. Many doctors had difficulty in treating patients using their own fingers. They could start to perform in minutes, tasks that before could have taken up to an hour. A 17th century doctor was to complain how tiring and time consuming the ‘massage therapy’ was for the doctor.

Other strange techniques were also sometimes used, such as air powered and gasoline powered vibrating tables, swinging chairs, jolting chairs and many others.

What does seem strange now, is that it was deemed normal for women during Victorian times to visit their doctor in order to obtain the sexual pleasure and relief they were not getting at home.

The Modern Vibrator

Within 20 years of the steam-powered vibrator being patented, a more portable battery vibrator was available, and by the turn of the 20th century – 20 years after the first electromechanical vibrator there were at least two-dozen different types of vibrators available to the medical profession.

It was not long before certain businesspersons spotted the potential of producing vibrators and selling them directly to women. They were marketed as household appliances – although never as sexual massagers. They were advertised in respectable periodicals.

Advertisements spoke of ‘health, vigor and beauty” promoting the vibrator as an aid to health. Men were encouraged to give their wives a massager as a gift. In fact, the vibrator (massager) was only the fifth electrical household appliance behind the kettle, toaster, sewing machine and fan.

The idea of hysteria as a disease was debunked in the 1950’s.

Today, women everywhere see their vibrator as part of their sexual independence and freedom. SexToys now come in all shapes, sizes are mostly quiet and discreet, and many women use them regularly.

Audio Erotica and Mature Erotica-Heightening Sexual Pleasure

There’s a whole new dimension in eroticism that significantly gains popularity nowadays, both in the real and virtual markets. From what used to be dominated by pornographic movies and magazines depicting photos of men and women in various forms of sexual poses, eroticism is starting to take an alternative course, which experts scientifically refer to as mature erotica.

This aspect explores different forms of foreplay other than through physical contact or plain visualization of sexual images. Mature erotica comes in the form of erotic novels, erotic stage plays, short stories, poems, audio erotica, and many other forms of literary publications.

Mature erotica presents the sexual act in a perspective that focuses more on passion, sensation, emotions and psychological reaction, instead of the actions and physical sensations involved in the sexual act per se. In a way, mature erotica connects with its audience at a more intimate and personal level.

As people grow older, the perception towards sex also changes. An individual who gains more experience in the field sees it differently from someone who is still an amateur in the area. Mature erotica describes the sexual act in a more complex context that involves feelings and personal connection; that sex is not simply sex. It is an act comprised of dynamic, physical action to satisfy ones urges. Mature erotica showcases sex as an activity that requires imagination, fantasy, openness, feelings and creativity. Such the factors fuel the contents of the literary pieces tagged under the category.

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